If non-Muslim tips help you with women, you need more help than you know

If you're a young Muslim man and you can't find a girl to marry, then there's got to be either it's it's one of two reasons. Either number one, you don't actually feel that you're ready for marriage, so you're not actively trying to find a a bride. Maybe financially, you don't think you're prepared. Maybe maturity level, you don't feel that you're prepared to be a husband, to be a mom. And if that's the case, okay, you're trying to be responsible, trying to make the right decision.

But the other reason, the only other reason why you can't find somebody that I can think of is you must not be very involved with the masjid and the broader Muslim community where you live. Because in my experience, it's hard to not get married if you go to the masjid. Some uncle is always there telling you, brother, you know, you made your salah, you come to the masjid, now it's time to complete the other half of your din. I know with this sister, I know this family. How do you not get married?

It's very difficult to not get married. I mean, you have to refuse. People are always trying to find someone for you. So if you can't find anybody, you need to get involved with the masjid. You need to get closer to the Muslim community.

It means that you're wanting to get the advice, that non Muslims give each other, non Muslim, you know, red pill men give to other men, non Muslim men, on, how to find a girl, how to find a woman in a non Muslim environment and through non Muslim methods. In other words, you know, to meet her to meet some girl at the coffee shop and chat her up, to meet some girl stuck for a lot of club and chat her up, meet her at school and start chatting. You know, you're trying to find all of these methods of attracting women when that's not what you're supposed to be doing, brother. The sumna teaches us everything that we need to know. If didn't tell you how to walk into a room and catch a girl's eye, then you're not supposed to do it.

Right? I mean, if didn't didn't teach us, if it's not in the sunnah and we don't have a hadith telling us, you know, what you can say to a girl to immediately drive her wild. You're not supposed to do it. That's not how you get a wife. Like I said before, we have a system.

So if you can't find one, you're not plugged into the system, and you need to be plugged into the system.