Hey, Red Pillers, just say "rich guy" instead of "high value male"
Assalamu alaikum. You know, in red pill discourse, they like to use the word high value male instead of saying what they really mean, which is a rich man. They just mean a rich man, someone who makes a $100,000 or more a year. Okay. This is a problem.
When what you mean is a rich man, but instead you say high value male. You are actually assigning value to a man based on a criteria that we do not consider as the criterion for what gives a man value in Islam. What gives you value in Islam is your iman, your taqwa, your character, your deeds, your knowledge. This is what gives you value. You are adopting the value system that places value or higher value on a man's income than on his iman.
We know that Rasulullah said that Allah loves the servant who is who is pious, who is self sufficient, meaning he's content with whatever he has materially, and who is obscure or hidden, who doesn't draw attention to himself, who's what the red pill community would call a beta male. He's nondescript. You wouldn't you wouldn't take notice of him, but Allah takes notice and Allah loves him, but women don't. Okay. Then make sure that you marry the kind of woman who values in a man what Allah values in a man.
And told you to marry women who are religious, not women based upon their high status, their lineage, or their wealth. He said marry the woman who's religious. If her criteria is the same criteria as Allah then you won't have any problems. As long as to your wife you are a high value male, then you're a high value male. And no matter who you marry, your wife should consider you to be a high value male because you are of high value to her.
And the same goes for her with you. Any woman that you marry, you should regard as a high value female. In fact, the highest.
تمّ بحمد الله