Divorcees and the never-married

A man is always going to treat a divorced woman differently than he would treat a woman who's never been married. And I think the same should be true for a woman marrying a man if he's been divorced. It's different from when the person has never been married before. It just raises more questions. I mean, the West, divorce is so frequent that people often think that you shouldn't treat it any differently.

But in the Muslim world, we're gonna have questions. If you've been divorced, we wanna know what happened. It's just like if you're hiring someone for a job. They're gonna ask you, okay. What was your previous job?

And they say, it's the same as this job, and why aren't you there anymore? Well, I got fired or I quit. Why was that? Insubordination, I didn't get along with my boss, or whatever the case may be. Okay.

That's gonna raise questions. It's a red flag. Whatever the problems were in the first marriage, they might be the problems in the proposed marriage. You have to ask those questions.